Navigating life with MS

You are not alone on this journey. Discover real-life experiences and practical advice for living with Multiple Sclerosis, finding support, and thriving.

Embracing a new normal

So for the last couple years I've been forced to use my left hand even though I am right handed. My right arm is somewhat contracted and I only use it on the toggle switch for steering my power wheelchair.

You will be surprised how much you can get done even with the use of only one hand. I still enjoy doing dishes I still enjoy dusting and organizing. The one thing I cannot do that I enjoyed immensely is doing the laundry. But I must say that my husband does a very good job. My caregivers also assist with that job.

I do my crafting, puzzling and folding towels with only the use of my left hand. I have gotten pretty handy with it.

Limitations

It can be very difficult for us to admit that we do have limitations. We need to learn how to ask for help. I have now started to use my grabber more often. And if that doesn't work I ask for help. I miss doing my day-to-day chores. I miss cleaning my blinds believe it or not. I miss scrubbing my floors. And I especially miss doing the laundry. Through all this I must admit that my husband is amazing at laundry as he is  most things. There was a time that I couldn't even admit that. I am thankful that I have finally accepted that.

Many times I still feel that I can do certain things and I attempt them just to find out that I cannot. It still does make me angry. But I am working on that because I found anger cannot be a part of my life anymore.

Life goes on, keep moving

My hope is that after reading about living with MS, you feel a profound sense of not being alone. There is a community ready to support you, and help is available if you are willing to seek it out. Life absolutely goes on after a diagnosis or the onset of disability. You can still live a happy and healthy life. The most important advice I can give? Keep moving. Both physically and emotionally, continued engagement is vital for well-being.

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